Doesn't searching for three options take time? Yes, but not much. The brain works fast. This simple pause could save your life. Here’s an example of a life-threatening situation in which the best answer is counter-intuitive. If you are caught in a whirlpool, don't fight it. Instead, relax, drift to the bottom of the whirlpool where the centrifugal force is less, then you can swim out of the whirlpool and up to the surface. How do you relax when you seem to be drowning? Ah yes, there's the rub. We'll give you some strategies for this later. When you are panicked, your brain shuts down. Most of your blood goes to your limbs and you will not be creative. A peak performance state with its attendant relaxation could be your magic thinking answer. We present this in Chapter 7.

Be sure you've used your eyes, ears, hands (if you are in the dark), and nose to gather as much sensory information as possible, then you’ll be able to quickly summon three options. Only then, should you act. These instructions need some fine-tuning, but that's the general idea of how to use your brain to make the best first move. One more point to keep in mind, as you gather your perceptions, here and now, consider options, and begin to act is; be prepared to change course as any new better options appear. Sheets? If no ladder. Curtains? If no sheets? A window ledge, if neither. A wet towel? Is there time? Hands and knees? Jumping from one roof to another? These are drastic measures, and it's conceivable that finding unorthodox moves could save your life. And your child's life.

I remember being in a small hotel in Los Angeles at 2 am when the fire alarm began clanging. I had been dreaming of the seminar I was teaching in Los Angeles and I thought at first it was a school bell. It woke me up. Disoriented, I reached for the telephone and a calm operator told me to find the stairs and exit immediately. First, I looked out the window. No fire truck. I was on the fifth floor. I found my robe and slippers and took time to put these on. This time could have cost me my life. My nightgown was very short and at that moment, there was no smoke, a calm operator, and so my modesty overrode my survival instinct. Stupid.

Most of the hotel guests were milling around on the sidewalk and street by the time I joined them. I was so glad I had found my robe. Some of them were dressed in street clothes. Some wore lipstick. Were they courageous or already dressed at this hour? We stood around for almost half an hour while the kitchen fire was doused, then returned to our beds. Once back in bed, I realized my response (I also grabbed my purse) was not the brightest. I made a resolution to change my behavior if a fire alarm woke me up again in this life. I'll be the one in the short nightgown.

Are You A Crisis Expert?

If you have a job that entails dealing with crises, then you have been taught a certain set of procedures. Since each crisis by its very nature, is somewhat different, you have already discovered that these "set pieces" do not always fit. You must adapt to what is happening. These mental "adjustments" is what this book is about. We are not recommending specific save-your-life techniques. There are several well-researched books on this. See Index. What we are focusing on here, are the optimum thinking skills to allow you to choose the best next move when you are pressed for time. The thinking skills that work best for each unique situation.

You have to be inside the unique situation with all your perceptions open and working to figure out the next best step. Since the next step could be your last, there is a certain urgency to this figuring out.

Is This Your First Crisis?

For those people not accustomed to crises, the urgency itself may be their undoing. Thus this rehearsal guide.

You may find some of the mental shenanigans we recommend useful in other areas of your life as well. In teaching corporate America for the last 25 years, I've found that business people often use the same strategy to buy a house, choose a wife, select a pair of blue jeans, and turn down a merger. Almost everyone I've taught could learn more about their decision-making processes to improve their decisions and their lives. Each of us makes a decision with each breath yet we seldom think about how we do this.

The role of perception in potentially saving your life will be considered first because that's where your thinking strategies begin. Whether you know this or not, it's true. Then, you will probably find other areas of your life improved by these skills. Refining the quantity and quality of all your perceptions could not only save you from harm but also improve your day to day decisions. All of us delete and distort our perceptions.

Here are the ABC’s of improving your ability to perceive the world around you so that you see, hear, feel, and smell data will help you in a crisis. Each of our actions begins with our perceptions. Better decisions and actions depend on better perceptions.

These perceptual awareness ideas are arranged in short bursts so that you can review them quickly. The mnemonic is designed to help you remember the ones you need. You might memorize the ones that are new for you, just in case you need them. The ABC mnemonic is s proven strategy to help you with the process of remembering.